This easy wedding terminology guide breaks down the most common ceremony and reception terms every engaged couple should know. Learn the definitions of key wedding vocabulary so you can plan confidently and understand exactly what your vendors are talking about.
Planning a wedding comes with a whole new vocabulary — and no one expects you to know it all. From ceremony music to reception details, here’s your quick, easy guide to the terms you’ll hear while planning your big day.
Prelude
Soft background music while guests arrive and get seated.
Processional
The music that plays when the wedding party walks down the aisle.
Popular picks: “Canon in D” – Pachelbel, “Marry Me” – Train, “A Thousand Years” – Christina Perri.
Recessional
The upbeat, celebratory song that plays as you walk back up the aisle as a married couple.
Popular picks: “Best Day of My Life” – American Authors, “This Will Be” – Natalie Cole, “Beautiful Day” – U2.
Postlude
Music that plays after the ceremony as guests exit the space.
Boutonniere
A small floral pin worn by men, usually one flower or bud.
Charger
A decorative plate placed under your dinner plate or used in place of one depending on the meal style.
Corsage
A small floral piece worn by special women in your family, usually on the wrist or pinned to a dress.
Escort Cards
Alphabetized cards that show guests their table number for the reception.
GOBO/Monogram
A stencil placed over a light to project your initials or a design onto the dance floor or walls.
First Look
A private moment before the ceremony where you and your partner see each other for the first time — great for getting photos done early so you can enjoy cocktail hour.
Head Table
A table where the couple sits with the wedding party or family.
Place Cards
Cards placed at each seat telling guests exactly where to sit at their table.
Table Number
Numbers or names displayed on every table so guests can find theirs easily.
Up Lighting
Colored lights placed on the floor pointing up the walls to change the vibe and ambiance of a room.
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Vendor Meal
A meal provided for vendors working your wedding (photographers, DJs, planners, etc.).
Sweetheart Table
A small, private table just for the couple to sit at during the reception.Need Help With Other Wedding Terms?
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